Lioness11
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Lioness11 got a reaction from paapiman in Battling Addiction with Gurbani
It depends what the addiction is. But yoga is very good, mediation, practicing Truth from Gurbani etc. It could be good to see a therapist. Surrounding yourself with good positive people is always a good thing.
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Lioness11 got a reaction from paapiman in 30,000 jaap of a shabad
Siddhis can be distractions on the path. Try just loving God. He made this khel for us out of True Love. He loves us more than most of us realize.
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Lioness11 reacted to Lucky in Case Study 1 - Slander (Ninda)
Be Humble.
Stay low..............stop trying to fit in with the rest of them.
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Lioness11 reacted to ibrute in Case Study 1 - Slander (Ninda)
How does one deal with slander (Ninda) of oneself and backbiting (Chuglee) at a workplace, according to Gurmat?
Given that you did not do anything they are saying, it is very good. Kabir Jee says nindak is my true friend he cleans my karma with his tongue. Dont stop them it will help you a lot spiritually, like in Bhagti.
Keep a happy face, truth will eventually prevails.
If someone do ninda with you in company, Avoid that person like toxic. Make excuses that you are busy or better leave the place for a moment. Thats why Guru jee says keep some level of non attachment with your surroundings, because result of hearing slander is Dokh dristi. You will see evil in all and spiritually that is a death sentence. Guru Amar das Jee maharaj say Har bin awar na dekho koi. Its good to follow Guru's advice.
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Lioness11 reacted to paapiman in Case Study 1 - Slander (Ninda)
How does one deal with slander (Ninda) of oneself and backbiting (Chuglee) at a workplace, according to Gurmat?
Like for example, if you come to know that some people are spreading false information or making fun about you at a workplace, how should one deal with it?
If someone, who is in good terms with you, keeps exposing other people to you; how does one handle this situation? This is kind of tricky, as you don't want to spoil your relations with that person too. The situation gets even worse, if senior level management people are being exposed to you, as then you would start loosing your trust in them.
Please do provide insights. Personal experiences would be great too.
Thanks
Waheguru jee kaa KhalsaWaheguru jee kee fateh
