samurai

Great find.

@dalsingh101..I've just text cousin if there are other products bit cheaper.. as i'm a bit skeptical when things are too cheap, just hold on a day or so..

I've seen this shit SO MUCH over decades brother! 
It's proper wanky though ain't it. When your head was at risk, you was all accepting and ready to be a brother - once the threat is gone, you start to act a c**t! lol
Legendary.
 
That's why such w***ers shouldn't be given the time of day in my opinion. We can spot them a mile off now. This Paapiman is one. 

Bruv, some of the sh1t you come out with is legendary, crack me rite up...(not speaking about this comment..lol)
One thing ive noticed (you prob have to) that when it kicks off everyone becomes a sikh (moneh, drinkers, smokers, players etc).. When things get calm then these same people who helped out become outcasts..double standards..hate it!!
 

you know there are many people born in Sikh families who don't drink, eat halal and sleep around, have love for sikhi. Follow everything a good person is supposed to be. Don't call me non sikh just because I am not amritdhari and not Hindu. Umm rude lol

You can't just exclude and marginalize 80-90% of the panth like that. The Sehajdharis are still part of the Sikh panth and follow Sikh rituals and customs.

Racist! 

i think when you see the dead body 'reality' kicks in. Everyone reacts differently. Moving on is the hardest thing to do but the best/healthiest thing to do. The way i see things is that if the past is positive then its good to reminisce but if its negative/painfull don't bother dwelling on it, let it go and move on.
haha,...that's the first thing i noticed, its a game changer..lol

I have no problem with women crying, banging chest if it is genuine (annoying and loud as i may find it), i just hate that fake sh1t, its too much pakhand for my liking in terms of time and place (funeral).
I think its ok for men to shed a tear (even in front of others), but not cry like a baby in front of others, leave that for behind closed doors..lol
When my dhada passed away i kept getting an 'eerie' feeling, This feeling was consistent from before he passed away (last days in hospital) to the day of the funeral. He was also doing weird things and talking to people we could not see. He said to me many times (with hand actions) hit that person, and where he was pointing there was no one, so i punched the air a few times and he then relaxed (at this point i was like what the f**k). 
But when my nani passed away there was a very peaceful sort of feeling. (i was really close to her). A day before the funeral a few of us went to go see her at the funeral directors place and even then i was in peace (there just seemed to be a peacefull energy, hard to explain), plus my mama started reciting anand sahib i didn't say any thing until one of my cousins actually said "i thought i was gonna be scared but its actually kinda peacefull" i was like damm.
What i learnt from this is that my dhada did quiet a few bad deeds and pissed a few people of in his time where as my nani from day one is respected highly by our family and community and has always lived a truthful life. So the karm/deeds we do throughout our life eventually catches up to us by death, no running away even though we live in ignorance while we are young as death seems like a far reality. 
Death and after life really interest me. 
I have heard this from various family members. Its true.

I was actually complementing Canada lol.., London is just congested and a big rat race(suppose most cities are)...saying that your video is of good old southall, that was filmed  a few years ago and its even more desi now..lol
Didn't mean anything by it bro, it was just light humour. Ive been to Brampton before and its a nice area. Kalyug is spread equally but differently all over world.

Bro, this is called Singh darishtee, which is different from Kookar (Dog) darishtee. Tiger focuses on the enemy/prey, not on the weapon or the surrondings, while the dog focuses on the weapon.
Heard the above in Katha.
 
Bhul chuk maaf

This next video combines elements of both tiger attack & elephant. Notice, how high the tiger can jump. enjoy.. I love tiger & lions , as long as they are on my side lol
 

Yeh. when my dhada saw these things there was fear in him but my nani on the other hand was semi smiling and talking. At this point she stopped communicating with us, literally would not speak just smile at us, but she would talk to things we could not see like she would zone out.  i suppose we will find out for ourselves when time is up..lol

I have no problem with women crying, banging chest if it is genuine (annoying and loud as i may find it), i just hate that fake sh1t, its too much pakhand for my liking in terms of time and place (funeral).
I think its ok for men to shed a tear (even in front of others), but not cry like a baby in front of others, leave that for behind closed doors..lol
When my dhada passed away i kept getting an 'eerie' feeling, This feeling was consistent from before he passed away (last days in hospital) to the day of the funeral. He was also doing weird things and talking to people we could not see. He said to me many times (with hand actions) hit that person, and where he was pointing there was no one, so i punched the air a few times and he then relaxed (at this point i was like what the f**k). 
But when my nani passed away there was a very peaceful sort of feeling. (i was really close to her). A day before the funeral a few of us went to go see her at the funeral directors place and even then i was in peace (there just seemed to be a peacefull energy, hard to explain), plus my mama started reciting anand sahib i didn't say any thing until one of my cousins actually said "i thought i was gonna be scared but its actually kinda peacefull" i was like damm.
What i learnt from this is that my dhada did quiet a few bad deeds and pissed a few people of in his time where as my nani from day one is respected highly by our family and community and has always lived a truthful life. So the karm/deeds we do throughout our life eventually catches up to us by death, no running away even though we live in ignorance while we are young as death seems like a far reality. 
Death and after life really interest me. 
I have heard this from various family members. Its true.

Then it's usually too little too late. lol

Matam karan/Keernay paune include crying/wailing/beating chests/beating heads, etc.
There is a sakhi behind the origin of Matam Karna. It was used by Mata Parbhati jee (wife of Shivjee) as a ploy to kill a demon, who was lusting after her. The demon's name was Bhasmasur.
 
Bhul chuk maaf

IMO, Women are emotional creatures. It is healthy for them if they can act out their emotions through excessive crying and shrieking. I am not in favor of beating chests though. Making sounds and noises is a great way to release the pent-up emotions inside whether its anger, fear or sorrow. When we lift heavy weight, we struggle and it can help if we can grunt or make some noise. Its a psychological effect. Also, if you go on roller-coaster rides, it makes the ride go easier. Similarly, its better to release these emotions through crying and making noises. However, it is also true that some people do put on a show even if they are not feeling anything. I guess, its like a camaraderie for their fellow women.
imo, For men, however, crying should not be done in public.  It should be done under closed doors or only with very close male members. Public display can have deep unconscious damage on others. Men need to be rock in these situations.
Kids are the least affected, however. Their healing process is very very fast.
As you grow older, death has a more emotional deeper impact on you.
My Dada Ji passed away when I was 10, Naani when I was 15, and Daadi when I was 28. When I compare these three deaths, the one that affected me emotionally more was when I was 28. Note, I was more emotionally attached to my Naani. And, I have no recollection of nasty experience when I was 10, even though I remember the events clearly.
Also, on a side note, I am more reminded about death the most when I am either going to bed, getting closer to bed or sometimes when I wake up in morning.
Death is a good reminder, and cleanser but this reminder happens on its own.

I think western culture doesn't like overt emotional outbursts, they are subtly frowned upon, especially amongst the higher classes. They are considered to be childlike and unsophisticated. The characteristic of reserve and control are valued. Our lot don't have this, and will fly off the handle in emotional outbursts like kids.   
 
I'm the same. I don't think we got much out of the experience and it's legacy has effected us negatively in a variety of ways i.e. a loss of sovereignty and the legacy of a sycophantic mental attitude towards goray by many apnay. They essentially went to the poorest, most desperate farmers (despite what their descendants try and claim today) and mass enlisted them by filling up their heads with illusions of grandeur and giving them preferential treatment over other communities. Then, when everything went pear-shaped - they walked off and left us to defend ourselves at partition. 
People don't like to hear it though. We've lost a lot of confidence, power and strength since goray invaded Panjab.  
 
BTW, I think Eastend-Sikhs are a bit more clued up about goray than your average apna. 

@samurai
Ain't heard anything since I got that card. I think it's serious. If he survives they'll probably put him in a home. 
 
RE: the funeral. Mate, you should see it back home, sometimes neighbourhood women come out and start wailing and beating their chests like demented witches at funerals procesions....I'd be like "B1tch you don't even know the person! Calm your overly dramatical ar5e down ffs!!" Damn jaloos!
 
Keep your head up bro.  
 
@paapiman
 
It's cool man. Let the thread go wherever it goes now! lol

its called keerne paune or vain paune...
only the close ones really feel the pain of separation.  rest are their to pay their formalities.
There are three important ceremonies in a persons life : birth, marriage & death, all involved different forms of expression of emotions.

Came back from cousins chacha's funeral earlier, its soo depressing man. I was observing the bibiyan fake crying, like they made all the right facial expressions and made all the right noises, but when i looked at their faces there were no tears..so fake man.. Sorry just had to get that off my chest..
@dalsingh101. Hows your neighbor doing? Any improvements?
Is that a vow??..lol...stick to it, you can do it bro

@samurai
I agree samurai, the sulleh numbers seem to be increasing in Canada. The sulleh problems used to piss me off too when I was in UK. The Canadians kind of shocked me at first because they seemed too oblivious to sulleh attitudes and their corrupt agendas. They seem to be a generation or two behind here and are basically at the stage where UK Sikhs were in late 70's and early 80's.. ..The majority of second generation muslims are just elementary school kids yet. I can very easily imagine how they will be in 10-15 years and the same uk sulleh scenarios start happening in places like Brampton and Surrey.
@gunahgar
yes, Uk Sikhs are tougher in that sense because they have had to face some serious shit over the years. Problem in Canada is that the 'tough' factor is more related to gang warfare and crimes.
 
 

@paapiman is in trouble! Planeteers, let our powers combine...
@Gunahgar@samurai@dalsingh101
Lol you guys, the age of 25 is not arbitrary. In Indic culture, that age is when Brahmcharya ends and Grihasti begins.
Age 25 is when Guru Nanak Dev ji had children. Even though he got married a lot younger, his family life started at 25.

Bro what a coincidence, i was on train reading metro and thought i may post the adam johnson (footballer) story on here, but i though i would wait till he is sentenced.
This sh1t pisses me off so much its unbelievable, i actually spoke to mohan singh a year back or so and he was asking for volunteers, i was like to be honest i cannot deal with that sh1t verbally ill loose it. Then i asked him whats the the worst case you have dealt with, his answer was they are all bad but youngest age was 7 years old.. come on man...
these f'in demons are preying on our girls, it's for our community to stop being poppu pricks and man up.. This is why this flowery shant ras sikhs piss me off big time..
sorry bro, this sh1t gets me going.. chal maybe its a uk problem for now, but i know first hand sulleh from east london looking to move to canada (i wonder what for)..its all about jannat for them..
Going back to clip, yes police, local authority etc, should also be held accountable..

Bro what a coincidence, i was on train reading metro and thought i may post the adam johnson (footballer) story on here, but i though i would wait till he is sentenced.
This sh1t pisses me off so much its unbelievable, i actually spoke to mohan singh a year back or so and he was asking for volunteers, i was like to be honest i cannot deal with that sh1t verbally ill loose it. Then i asked him whats the the worst case you have dealt with, his answer was they are all bad but youngest age was 7 years old.. come on man...
these f'in demons are preying on our girls, it's for our community to stop being poppu pricks and man up.. This is why this flowery shant ras sikhs piss me off big time..
sorry bro, this sh1t gets me going.. chal maybe its a uk problem for now, but i know first hand sulleh from east london looking to move to canada (i wonder what for)..its all about jannat for them..
Going back to clip, yes police, local authority etc, should also be held accountable..