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Here is a another one listen from 2:30 onwards
 

Although it is not related to Chandi Di Vaar it is still Dasam Bani. Bhen Ji listen to this katha track 1:18:00 onwards about Brahm Kavach.
 
 
Also update i have found a Bibi doing paath of Chandi Di Vaar which should clear any doubts about the gender issues
 
 

Also read this post i found online on this site about Chandi Di Vaar.
 
 

Someone in my relatives.. she actually asked somebody I don’t know who she asked maybe some granthi (not sure) and that person told her that females can’t do Chandi Di Vaar.. she wanted to start doing it herself but when she been told that she can’t thn She didn’t do it. And she didn’t even ask the reason.. and I just can’t digest this.. now their are baniya as well that a female can’t recite.. it makes no sense to me 

Okay.. thank u 🙏🏻 Will do 

I am glad i could help and also keep a time on sunset and make sure it is read before it. Best of luck !!

Listen at 14:45 onwards about Chandi Di Vaar and Brahm Kavach. How they work pratically. 
 
 

I don’t know if I should be posting here but after reading all the posts it seems like ur crazy about blondes maybe coz of white skin or what.. but I think no one should look at the outer/physical appearances because that’s actually not our true identity.. anyways ur story is sooo similar to   One of My friend’s boyfriend’s frnd.. he also had these urges and all.. he use to do the same thing after doing everything he’ll be like oh I feel ashamed, i feel nasty.. I feel like people should throw shoes at me this and that.. and he was married as well.. but the good thing is that u want to get over it.. there are some people who don’t even think about u know getting any better..  but all u can do is control urself. Yes it is hard but that’s what we are told by our guru’s to fight each and everyday like a battle with our enemies and our enemies are lust, anger, greed, attachment and pride.. and trust me after little hard work you will be so grateful to god. And the only way u can win ur battle is by doing simran, seva and everything you’ve been told to do by other members.. I can suggest one more thing always keep waheguru in ur mind. Like never forget him not even for a sec.. when u have this thought in ur mind whatever I do my waheguru is always watching me thn That might help in controlling urself.. good luck brother and I’m sry if I said anything wrong. 

Thats ok i am glad i could help 

Thank u so much for this.. 

Thank u so much for this.. 

Bhen Ji don't be disheartend listen to this katha clip at 50:50 onwards. I was suprised myself. 
http://www.gurbaniupdesh.org/multimedia/04-Katha/13-Giani Thakur Singh Ji (Patiala Wale)/Katha Special Events/Barsi Sant Kishan Singh Ji-Rara Sahib Wale.mp3

Yes Bhen Ji it is fine to jaap at night. I myself do jaap of it when i can. It has no time restrictions. Here is the link which was posted earlier
 
 

Yes.

A non-Amritdhari can and is encouraged to do as much paat as he can.

It is the 'khich' created by doing paat, kirtan, simran that leads to the person no longer being a non-Amritdhari...

Listen to this. Dhan Sant Kartar Singh Ji Dhan Sant Gurbachan Singh Ji.
 
 
 

I can't recall where i may have mentioned it, but I have a good idea of what they are. Gurmantar should get you whizzing pass them after a few occasions. Then you move on to some higher planes with different sounds.
 
No, it's not the sacha shabad yet. Sacha shabad is 24/7 and that's the beauty of it.  My explanation is that these blasts and alternating amplitudes are like breakthrough sounds. Breakthrough meaning, the opening and activating of channels/nadis. These help to make way for the sukhmana naree to awaken.
 
There are lots of dev loks and heaven planes. As you go higher and higher, the shabad gets closer. Remember that the shabad comes from Nijh Ghar in amritsar(amrit sarover). Don't get too concerned or mixed up into calling it dev lok shabad, because this may cause you some confusion later. You can pm me, and I can tell you my understanding of what level loks you may be at.
You are just getting some teasers of intoxication yet. Just think what lays ahead?  There will be days and weeks of constant intoxication where you will not sleep and be wanting to meditate 24/7.  These peaks are out of this world, and your mind shall be celebrating "mann vajiyaah vadainyan"  
 
Excellent. Spoken like a true vadhbaghee. I wouldn't get too wrapped up about going into sunn until your foundations are strong. ....I know, ...I wasted so much time trying to rush into sunn samadhis. You wanna strengthen your foundations with gurmantar and the experiences it takes you through. Later, you'll be able to sit down and get into deep meditative states within seconds by going straight into antarghat.
I'd recommend practicing rom rom jugtee with pure heart and energy. Once this gets pargat with kirpa, later stages become more controllable.
 

This is because your flow of prana is imbalanced and getting obstructed in places. In order to understand this, you have to realise that there is 1) Your physical body and 2) your subtle body (sukham) . In order to be enlightened, these have to be in harmony and in sync. That's why, your body is your temple. 
Whenever the energy accumulations in your sukham sareer get too vast, then they have to transform directly into your physical body. This is why emotions, feelings and states of mind all affect our physical body. Feeling shitty, depressed, stressed leads to popular symptoms of many physical ailments etc. 
I've repeatedly stressed in the past that it's important to maintain good posture and be seated upright when doing jap. This allows prana to flow more freely.  Also note, that Yoga means to jog, which means to join/merge. True yoga is about the science behind joining your Sukham and physical sareer and to keep them vibrating at equal frequencies. First step is to jog your physical and subtle, your miri and piri, your inner and outer. After this, one can move further in order to jog self-jyot Waheguru jyot.  It's all about how you abolish levels of duality and become more pure in order to merge with Akaal Purakh (joti jot milaayai)
In my opinion, what you need to do and get stronger with is... focus on prana flowing with saas  by doing the saas graas/saas saas techniques with slight navel pull in and out. Done properly, this should pave the path of flow without sudden obstructions and eruptions. Activate and keep all energy flowing upwards from navel.

In the short clip below, Gyani Kulwant Singh jee explains why the mind becomes so unsteady when we try to meditate or focus on God. He also gives a remedy.
 
Bhul chuk maaf

Yes. That’s what they are. They should atleast have respect of the bana they wear. This is so sad and disappointing. Anyways thnx for the link. 

Here are a few more examples from Baba Ji's life
 
http://media.mahapurakh.com/SANT ISHER SINGH JI Rara Sahib/044 Three types of Bairaag.mp3
 
http://media.mahapurakh.com/SANT ISHER SINGH JI Rara Sahib/117 Meditation Nitnem Abhyaas of Sant Isher Singh Ji.mp3
 
http://media.mahapurakh.com/SANT ISHER SINGH JI Rara Sahib/244 Sant Sundar Singh Bhindranwale Guru Nanak Darshan.mp3

And a few more links from Bhai Randhir Singh
https://www.scribd.com/document/124979128/Waheguru-Simran-Bhai-Randhir-Singh-Ji
 
http://naamvairaag.blogspot.co.uk/2006/08/how-do-we-do-simran.html?m=1

Hanji. Found that rabb da Banda Lucky paji here.. he has helped me a lot.. So thankful to him and waheguru ji 🙏🏻

Bhen ji here listen to Baba Ji Sant Isher Singh Ji video 
 

Hanji. Found that rabb da Banda Lucky paji here.. he has helped me a lot.. So thankful to him and waheguru ji 🙏🏻

But if they won’t share thn how will others will get help.. like in my situation I have no one to talk to and I’m stuck with unlimited questions and need helpand and at this moment my situation is that I can’t even go out and look for a pooran Maha purakh and if by his kirpa I get into little higher awastha ( just an example) and I keep doing the same thing hiding and someone else who’s looking for real help thn ?? And that’ll be so ungrateful if I’ll forget this pain and suffering that someone else might be facing at that point..  my thinking is we can share our experiences but not getting into the feeling of pride but only to help someone. And it doesn’t mean that we should keep telling about experiences to each and everyone.. like here in this forum there’s a thread called my experiences am I allowed to share there I only remember sat paji who actually shared his experiences and if someone else also did and I don’t remember thn I apologise for that. Just a thought of mine coz of the situation I’m in..