randip singh Posted June 2, 2006 Report Share Posted June 2, 2006 Lets be clear what we mean by Lust. Lust or Kaam is an unhealthy obsession with sex. It is like an alcoholics addiction to alcohol. Don't confuse them with normal biological instincts. Its not a sin or a crime to have these thoughts. Now if you feel it is Kaam....maybe you need to use that excessive energy in another way. Join a Gym, learn martial arts etc. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khalsa'z_Pyari Posted June 2, 2006 Report Share Posted June 2, 2006 No not really. For many people the opposite may be true. Imho, over many years of evolution, muslim women seem to have mastered the art of wearing their relious garments in a sexy way - just look at the way some of them use it to accentuate their femine curves. Agree with Javanmard that marriage at an early age could generally speaking help solve many problems in a culture which see's b/f g/f as taboo. I think it is ridiculus that people should have to wait till they're 35 to get married especially if they believe that a physical relationship is only permissible within marriage. 40year olds who havent had sex! ? completely un-natural . . . no wonder it causes problems. As for sexual thoughts disappearing as we get old, . . . hmmmm, I would like to think so (fighting denial), but I'm afraid deep down I know its not true esp. with men. The thoughts are there for sure, eventhough the body becomes weak and cannot act on the thoughts. I hate to think what goes on in my 93 year old baba's mind lol 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
singh_solza Posted November 30, 2006 Report Share Posted November 30, 2006 WJKK WJKF Bhaji i know how you feel ive been in the same position as you just a few week's ago, but with guru's kirpa i heard a kirtan updesh by Bhai Guriqbal singh, he said increase the amount of sukhmani sahib ji paath you do daily to fight anyone one of the five vikaars witch is most heavy on you and do ardass afterwards to Satguru to help you fight it. Bhaji this method had been apllied in practical and IT WORKS 100%. DHAN DHAN GURU ARJUN DEV JI DHAN DHAN GURU ARJUN DEV JI WJKK WJKF 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dynamic_Banda Posted December 1, 2006 Report Share Posted December 1, 2006 Its true.. it does work.. The other day i saw this lovely specimen of the opposite gender.. and i thought dhan guru for making that.. and then i thought some unholy thoughts.. then i thought singh solza said do sukhmani to conquer my kaam.. the thought of having to sit down for an hour and do sukhmani totally made my mind forget its kaam.. dhan dhan guru Arjun Dev Ji... and dhan guru nanak for creating vaheguru shabad.. phew.. just imagine if naam was as long as sukhmani.. 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wahegurubol Posted November 28, 2007 Report Share Posted November 28, 2007 everywhere i go i see women dressed in tight jeans, short skirts, tight tops, low cut tops etc. Girlls in the UK always look stunning aswel and i cant control maself everytime i see a girls, i think 'DAM, look at that, i want sum!' its a typical asian attitude but i did managem to stop it for a while but now its back. ne1 else feel like this? LOL MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... you sound so hillarious 0 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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