GurpreetKaur

That's racist.
If I was an aussie I would sound like -
Croikey, you knauw wot i fink? I fink yur meeting too many peepo wif a lisp. And they ah making your loif miserable when they shaya thaya donay wif you and say "donay f**k lo", but wot they ah really saying is donay chhuk lo. Do you undastand wot I am saying?

Your ACRONYM is so long even you messed it up!
It is KKB  NKJ HPKR LPKS HN DPDS   DDSSGGSJM
Kalyug Ke Bohith   Naam Ke Jahaz   Halat Palat Ke Rakhyak   Lok Parlok Ke Sahayak   Hazar Nazar   Dasan Pathshian De Saroop   Dhan Dhan Sahib Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji Maharaj!!
lol

Yeah, that is the moment. When my Daadi passed away a year ago, I was fine for the first day. But when I called Chacha I could not talk to him, had a knot in throat, thats when I went to washroom and let it out.
I did a Sehaj Path for Daadi in 7 days. I was tearing up during path....and the messages of Guru Sahib felt so real...nothing mattered at that time , only God. But that avastha slowly went away...lol..back into world.   And the Hukumnama came was Gur Poore Charni Laya...awesome hukamnama .which meant my path was successful.

I quit!!.. You just took all the fun outta this Game.  
 

Some of the things are automatic, for me I woke up couple times in the middle of the night by hearing loud noises outside. I wake up and my heart is going crazy and I just rush outside to make sure everything is okay and find bro and dad arguing and talking so loudly since dad is drunk  and bro can't handle his madness. The emotions I go through are hard to express but will try. It's usually a fight or flight response where I rush outside to save both of them so they won't get into physical fight but when my pleading does not make them stop verbal argument then I start shaking like crazy and that shaking gets so hard I don't have enough stamina to stand.  I don't cry at that moment, it's just stupid shaking gets me so weak. I know usually fear of one of my family member getting hurts get so heavy that my body starts shutting down. Man it's crazy, luckily it has been calm since couple few months. Thank vaheguru. I have cried couple times too but it usually because I was like maybe one of them will see the tears and will control the drnk attitde or anger. I guess at that moment, when pleading does not work, I have used tear to make them stop bu oh well men and their ego are barely loosen up with tears :(
My mom freaks out over small stuff and her breathing gets so heavy and then she go around like saying haye rabba haye rabba. We all have different ways to cope with trauma but yea that fake crying is annoying. I onl saw it back in India here people stay calm.
when my dadiI ji passed away, I was 16 I think. I got the news around 4 am and I had no emotions. No pain at all.  Did not spend much time with her so maybe there was no bond and she did not care about me much either. Even though I used to g to her when she was diagnosed with cancer and used to take care of her but I did not do it cuz I wanted too. Dad forced me so needless to say there was no emotional attachment. She passed away and I did not cry, I went to funeral. It was not that much crying. No one did fake crying and even cousins were calm too. I stayed in funeral and was waiting for my tears to show up cuz I did not want people to think I did not care she went away. I was super emotionless that day. I was even the last one to give her the flower and have a last look and as soon as I went near her and tried to put flowers and saw her face that's when I got the shock that shes gone and she's dead. I burst into tears and had a loud cry and being a quiet person that surprised me. So I realized that some time in situations like this you can stay calm until it hits you hard. My bro cousin kept going to restroom to cry since he did not want anyone to see his tears, I wish he would have not care about that men should not cry .
also when she passed away, before dying she always talked about tractors, land back in Punjab. Now I know where her surti was, she did path on and off but was not that good with her heart area. I have way too much attachment with my dada ji, he's healthy and happy but I know one day he will have to go too and that sucks. Like I want him to live 20 more years so he can play with my future kids. But karmi apo apni so I won't think a lot abou this stuff but losing people sucks 

IMO, Women are emotional creatures. It is healthy for them if they can act out their emotions through excessive crying and shrieking. I am not in favor of beating chests though. Making sounds and noises is a great way to release the pent-up emotions inside whether its anger, fear or sorrow. When we lift heavy weight, we struggle and it can help if we can grunt or make some noise. Its a psychological effect. Also, if you go on roller-coaster rides, it makes the ride go easier. Similarly, its better to release these emotions through crying and making noises. However, it is also true that some people do put on a show even if they are not feeling anything. I guess, its like a camaraderie for their fellow women.
imo, For men, however, crying should not be done in public.  It should be done under closed doors or only with very close male members. Public display can have deep unconscious damage on others. Men need to be rock in these situations.
Kids are the least affected, however. Their healing process is very very fast.
As you grow older, death has a more emotional deeper impact on you.
My Dada Ji passed away when I was 10, Naani when I was 15, and Daadi when I was 28. When I compare these three deaths, the one that affected me emotionally more was when I was 28. Note, I was more emotionally attached to my Naani. And, I have no recollection of nasty experience when I was 10, even though I remember the events clearly.
Also, on a side note, I am more reminded about death the most when I am either going to bed, getting closer to bed or sometimes when I wake up in morning.
Death is a good reminder, and cleanser but this reminder happens on its own.

I have no problem with women crying, banging chest if it is genuine (annoying and loud as i may find it), i just hate that fake sh1t, its too much pakhand for my liking in terms of time and place (funeral).
I think its ok for men to shed a tear (even in front of others), but not cry like a baby in front of others, leave that for behind closed doors..lol
When my dhada passed away i kept getting an 'eerie' feeling, This feeling was consistent from before he passed away (last days in hospital) to the day of the funeral. He was also doing weird things and talking to people we could not see. He said to me many times (with hand actions) hit that person, and where he was pointing there was no one, so i punched the air a few times and he then relaxed (at this point i was like what the f**k). 
But when my nani passed away there was a very peaceful sort of feeling. (i was really close to her). A day before the funeral a few of us went to go see her at the funeral directors place and even then i was in peace (there just seemed to be a peacefull energy, hard to explain), plus my mama started reciting anand sahib i didn't say any thing until one of my cousins actually said "i thought i was gonna be scared but its actually kinda peacefull" i was like damm.
What i learnt from this is that my dhada did quiet a few bad deeds and pissed a few people of in his time where as my nani from day one is respected highly by our family and community and has always lived a truthful life. So the karm/deeds we do throughout our life eventually catches up to us by death, no running away even though we live in ignorance while we are young as death seems like a far reality. 
Death and after life really interest me. 
I have heard this from various family members. Its true.

Dhan Dhan Satguru Tera hi asra 

No this is better. This is the "Whose Line Is It Anyway" point system.
 
 

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I would rather take marijuana for depression, at least it's natural and back in Punjab pretty much ghar di kheti. I still remember how much bhang we used to remove and it would grow back like crazy. Here people pay money for that thing Which i used to pluck every other week to keep my backyard clean lol 
But Ragamaala ji, better don't go for medication to relieve your depression. You will have to increase the dosage to get the same benefit, just like sharab and Drugs. All of us are going through this and might have gone through and will go through again and medication should be a last resort, I know your career is that but still lol

Sache Satguru shri prab hu guru teg bahadar sahib ji maharaj sachey patshah nirankar satguru.
I will take my winning reward wrapped in a silver bling bling paper. 

Sache Satguru shri parmatma poore hamarey Guru teg bahadar sahib ji maharaj  sadey paap niwaran Satguru. 
 
 

Sache Satguru shri prab hu guru teg bahadar sahib ji maharaj sachey patshah nirankar satguru.
I will take my winning reward wrapped in a silver bling bling paper. 

Dhan Dhan SSBANPSJMQA
(Sant Sipahi Baba Akali Nihang Phoola Singh Ji Maharaj Qatal-e-Afghan
HAha Luv it.
 

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Bro , people like me atleast are at a crawling stage...gradually the transition may happen. If you read the Akaal Ustat bani of Guru you would realize that a number of rituals we do at the Guru Ghar will also appear meaningless however we need to understand that the stage is of a advanced level. The Tuhi Tuhi Tuhi...when uttered Maharaj was in Maha Samadhi . I personally feel when we say something is not necessary we think according to our own preferences. We are not considering the others who perhaps are not thinking at that level and it does not mean they are some mediocre creatures.
The gyaan of the Sikhi in the Sukhmani sahib though simplified is not easily digested by common man , even after doing the bani how many of them go above rituals ?
Try understanding one thing ..the Gurus explained the futility of the rituals however there is a different level . The way Islam condemns and criticizes is different. Guru sahibs with utmost pyaar explain like Eh karke ki hoya ?
Let us look at individual assessment and achieve the awastha rather go after others is what i feel.

There is no end to such reasoning and cross questioning against any abhyas done. Tomorrow the very purpose of keeping kes can be questioned . So i personally feel if someone is doing abhyas with x number of paaths or simran there is nothing wrong with it . Everything and anything that does not go accroding to our will we blame the brahmans and brahman vaad ..i dont know how much of Sikhi should we consider that.

It all began in 1998, when Arunachalam Muruganantham, the son of poor handloom weavers in South India, realised that his wife was using old rags to deal with menstruation because she couldn’t afford sanitary pads. Muruga was shocked. But he also saw a chance to impress her. He decided to produce her sanitary pads himself. At first it seemed a simple task: he bought a roll of cotton wool and cut it into pieces, the same size as the pads sold in the shops, and then wrapped a thin layer of cotton around it. He presented this homemade prototype pad to his wife and asked her to test it. The feedback she gave him was devastating: his pad was useless and she would rather continue using old rags.
Where did he go wrong? What was the difference between his sanitary pads and those available at the shop? Muruga started experimenting with different materials, but was faced with another problem: he always had to wait a month before his wife could test each new prototype. Muruga needed volunteers and had an idea where he might find them. He askedmedical students at a university close to his village. Some of them actually tested his pads but they were too shy to give him detailed feedback. Left with no alternative, he decided to test the sanitary pads himself. He built a uterus using a rubber bladder, filled it with animal blood and fixed it to his hip. A tube led from the artificial uterus to the sanitary pad in his underpants. By pressing the bladder he simulated the menstrual flow.
Unfortunately he began to smell foul and his clothes were often stained with blood. His neighbours soon noticed this. It was clear to them that Muruga was either ill or perverted. After a while his wife couldn’t stand the constant gossip. She left him and went to live with her mother.
 
But Muruga didn’t give up. He knew why he was going through all this. During his research he had learned that only ten totwenty percent of all girls and women in India have access to proper menstrual hygiene products. This was no longer just about helping his wife. Muruga was on mission: to produce low-cost sanitary pads for all the girls and women in his country.
It was two years before he finally found the right material and another four years before he developed a way to process it. The result was an easy-to-use machine for producing low-cost sanitary pads.Imported machines cost over US$500,000. Muruga’s machine, by contrast, is priced at US$950. Now women’s groups or schools can buy his machine, produce their own sanitary pads and sell the surplus. In this way, Muruga’s machine has created jobs for women in rural India. He has started a revolution in his own country, selling 1,300 machines to 27 states, and has recently begun exporting them to developing countries all over the world.
 
Today he is one of India’s most well-known social entrepreneurs and TIME magazine named him one of the 100 most influential people in the world in 2014.
 
Several corporations have offered to buy his machine, but he has refused, instead preferring to sell to women’s self help groups.
http://interactive.aljazeera.com/aje/shorts/india-menstruation-man/index.html
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What will you call this man insane or genius?

There is a much cheaper option for women which is also good for the environment and can easily be produced so that every woman and girl in India would have one at virtually pennies per person!!!
Instead of disposable pads which produce tons of waste, 
Instead of women dealing with having bloody soaked pads against their skin which leads to bacteria growth (and men thinking and calling women 'unclean')
Instead of having something feeling like diapers
No chance of infection etc at all because the blood has not yet come in contact with anything outside the body.  
One of these will last a woman several years, costs almost nothing to mould from medical grade silicone, creates NO environmental waste, is easy to use, does not leak, contains everything inside until it's removed to empty, can be rinsed, disinfected and reinserted easily, can be worn 12 hours continuously and gets rid of any need for external products!  The cost per item can be literally less than 1.00 USD maybe even less in huge runs.  Every girl in India could be given one easily! 
Obviously that man empathized with what his wife had to deal with (and all women in India) and we need MORE men like him!!!! Maybe someone should give him the idea of producing these in India...
This is the miracle item!  It resides completely internally until its removed and any fluid remains completely inside the cup.  It can't physically leak through the cup! Its impossible! 
(wearing these, nobody should have any issue with women doing seva either!) 

 
 

Satguru Sri Guru Granth Sahib jee Maharaaj
 
Bhul chuk maaf

Dad lived in Middle east for more than 25 years. He knows a bit of Arabic. Daas studied Arabic too, at school (it was mandatory).
Anyways, let's stay on-topic brother. We can talk via pm or in some other topic.
 
Bhul chuk maaf

I was actually complementing Canada lol.., London is just congested and a big rat race(suppose most cities are)...saying that your video is of good old southall, that was filmed  a few years ago and its even more desi now..lol
Didn't mean anything by it bro, it was just light humour. Ive been to Brampton before and its a nice area. Kalyug is spread equally but differently all over world.

@gurpreet kaur
Don't for one second think I'm some sort of promoter of the greatness of London or England. Btw that video you posted is only representative of small areas of London - it's a VERY diverse place. 

That's how my parents are , mom can't decide what to pick and dad just comes and grab something and be like aa leh lah chal tor hoon. Smh But that video is sad, poor animal.