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Put your own asterix in! 
 
PS - There were lots of young boys in my extended family. I don't think there's anything wrong with warning them of these things when young teenagers. It's better than them walking into it unawares. 
I find the more graphic the warning for boys, the better. Like: "Watch out mate, mind you don't get f**ked in your ar5e! Be careful, these things go on you know...."
It's different to warning girls about abuse. 
 

If you read victim 553 I think it was, the broken jaw, on the kaur website it documents it. It is a well known and talked about occurence already. Basically a mona Sikh who was getting more interested in Sikhi put on a Dumalla and took a stupid photo and sent it to a girl, nothing lewd, and got his bones broken for it. When Sukha sent a Panj Pyare of.nobodies after him, and oversaw his beating. 
When taken to task privately for that his..contrition was fairly lacking and basically muttered yeah I messed up, Sikhi is all about forgiveness, forgive me. Still played it off though really. You can still find his podcasts from after that news came out on those topics. 
Close friends of that victim spread the news through the forums a couple years back. 
Nidar Singh Nihang is certainly unpopular, controversial, and imperfect, but good on him for supporting these victims. 
Although he too shows disregard for the safety of his mentees if you ask me. Really does a few unhealthy, disreputable things in his training. His training is however legitimate. 
The young lad was not Amritdhari, and not part of Sukhas Fauj really. He was over disciplined, innapropriately, according to a Rehit he's unfamiliar with, and standards of conduct that were alien to him. I partially understood Sukhas miscarriage of justice but now with the sex allegations a clearer pattern of behavior is emerging with a pattern of broken people left behind. 

The severe beating he oversaw is well documented. The sexual assaults are news to me but they should be taken seriously. 
His victims sound credible. 

These people make me sick as they are ruining the image of Sikhi with these sickening acts.

yes, other posts explains victims side of story. 
Bhai Mohan Singh from sikhawareness society visited our local gravesend gurudwara sahib and explain sexual grooming etc. and other similar things. Our gurudwaras need to start raising awareness and must openly punish the abusers to save the future incidents. 
I personally like what this Kaur is doing. Well done to her and her team!

Also, I think it should be pretty obvious where homosexual predators are going to be hidden now i.e. in cosy male dominated jathas. Parents need to be more streetwise about sending their kids there. 
Also, it's easier to talk to teenage boys about being sexually abused than females. Fathers, older brothers, older cousins, cool uncles need to be having this conversation with boys.   

Are these the allegations (below)?
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Saturday, Sept 25th 2021, I had a 19 min conversation with Sukha Singh. This was before any of the victims experiences went up. He was well aware of everything that was going to be posted on The Kaur Movement Platform.
His request was to not make anything public and to give him any punishment through the “5 pyare”. He said to pick any 5 people of my choosing and they can decide what punishment he should receive, for example, leaving preaching. He wanted this whole situation dealt with privately and not publicly. I declined and said the sangat has the right to know what crimes you have committed and the victims want you to publicly admit your wrongdoings. He declined to do this and repeated that he will do whatever the “5 pyare” say to do.
Sukha singh, why have you not publicly stated that you are innocent & that you did not sexually assault any men. I am asking sukha Singh to agree to do a lie detector test, I have not gotten any response from him. The victims have said yes to do that lie detector test with any hesitation, sukha Singh why are you hesitating ? @thekaurmovement
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Bhul chuk maaf

On Instagram,  i read posts against bhai Sukha Singh UK for sexual allegations. He is a well known sikh personality in UK. Victims are coming forward but it's sad that our community hesitates to raise the sexual grooming and exploitation topic in our sikh culture especially when happen in gurudwara or in the family. It would surely save the future incidents. What do you think ? I would like this world to be safe for our children and vulnerable people. 

Ultimately, I think the answer is simple. 
Is being born a female karmic punishment? 
Yes , because eventually, you become a MOTHER - IN - LAW. And a mother in law is hated equally, by both men and women. 

🙏   

In reality, Satguru Sache Paatshaah is himself Ik Oankaar Paarbrahm Parmeshwar Nirankaar Jyoti-Swaroop Aadi-Niranjan. He is the all-in-all. He neither "comes" anywhere nor "goes" anywhere. This is just his Mayavi Leelaa, as he is both the manifest and the unmanifest.

Be happy and confident and a positive and optimistic person , no matter what. Never doubt yourself 
Dont believe or waste time and your precious life and energy dwelling on the losers and their B.S and avoid bad eggs and sangat, 
Walk around the earth freely and without fear and enjoy your life.
Be a free spirit and strong 
Be happy and grateful for what you have 
Be real (and never get over excited or nervous about anything), and accept reality 
Accept that only I dictate my life and who I am, no one else can define me or dictate my life. Only I truly know who I am
Don’t look for or need approval or validation, approve of and validate yourself, only believe yourself and no one else
Love, cherish, respect, take care of, Believe in and be kind to yourself
Accept good things, make the most of your opportunities and accept praise graciously 
Be good and be Positive
Work hard and smart, don’t procrastinate, build your life and make it amazing 

Enjoy your life to the fullest and love your life 
Know yourself (as Sat/Truth and stay true to yourself and all around you 
I think this is such a good exercise even imagining you’re older than you are and giving advice to yourself now at what age you are currently

1) Protect your Veerya. 
2) Nurture your Hair. 

Spend more time with His bhagat jan.
Have more Gurbani in daily life.
Be aware and thankful at each and every step for His unbound grace.
Understand better His bhaana and remain in His hukum.

Excellent thread and posts my fellow veers @Jageera @Ragmaala  on here. I would do the following.
 
1). Used my time more wisely by learning my nitnem banis at a much younger age.
 
2). Did more malas simran jaap of waheguru simran and mool mantar. As i do wish i did a lot of simran bani jaap when i visted histrocial gurdwara sahib in india as a teenager looking back now.
 
3). Wish i had the knowledge and did the bir ras dasam banis when i was around 15/16 as that would have been cool.
 
4). Wish i had access to more books reading material especially the amount of books dass has now.
 
5). Looking back all i have to say is that it was all wahegurus hukam when guru sahib ji does kirpa on anyone to walk on this way of life.
 
 

1) Don't get involved with intoxicants and make friends that are not involved in it too.
2)Put in much more effort in studies.
3)Start Naam Simran and stick to it no matter what happens.

Ps. And stick to Waheguru Gurmantra and do intense kamai, and stop jumping from one mantra to another.   

For me it would be for my 15-20 years younger self
1. Start working out since grade 7/8. It would give you the confidence to go through college and uni comfortably.
2. Stay away from a 10 year toxic relation that ate away your spiritual wealth.
3. Never get too excited or too happy
4.  Follow your gurus hukum to the 100% especially control your eyes. 
 
 

A lot of gorian (and other non kaleeaan) love kalay blokes. I don't know what it is exactly but they do. Especially them shredded muscular types. Physical confidence helps too. Even if a kala is ugly but in good shape, they often have no problems with getting ladies. I'm guessing by your photo that you struggle?
Are there lots of kalay in Malaysia that you've seen do this, or are you just repeating what you've heard from some far right gora? Because you don't ever hear English whites saying what you are saying. I think they know damn well quite a few gorian like kalaay over them. 
And as for gorian getting abused and groomed in hordes, some other communities taken that crown here. 

Whats the point of wearing bana carrying kirpan and swords in gurudwaras while Sikh girls are getting f'ed left and right in the same community we live in by hostile elements who get a lot of racial and religious pride by these acts.Women usually get mass raped after a nation gets defeated.Here without firing a bullet they are reaping the booty of war.I got this from an anti war rape site online as to why women are raped in war :
As a trophy of triumph/ victory; Especially among communities that are rebel strongholds, to crush a male rebel’s pride, his wife, mother, sister, or daughter would be raped, a mindset of “to destroy a warrior, debase his woman”; and Women and girls are considered as part of the soldiers’ rest and recreation. 

I'm not in the UK but through my experience in my country I would like to list some opinions and attempt to answer Veerji Samurai2s Q's.
1)It leads the question as to why certain girls fall for the mirpuru (predominantly) pricks... drugs sex alcohol.??..
A)Media(Western&Indian/Punjabi) these days glorifying drunkenness and debauchery encouraging youths to live  hedonistic lifestyle and abandon traditionalism. B)Lack of male role model at home. Father/brothers also abuse alcohol/drugs/sex. C) Domestic violence at home that is prevalent in many Punjabi/Sikh homes so the child looks out of the house for safety&protection and loses respect for the father figure and ends up addicted to alcohol and drugs to numb the pain their mind and souls are going through. D) Sikh boys being brought up as complete weaklings and coward mummys boys.They are just told to excel at studies/business/job/prayers/gurudwara and nothing else. Sikh girls notice this and look elsewhere to satisfy their need for safety and a manly man.E) The girls are not totally innocent either.They want to drink,get high and have sex as long as no one finds out about it.By no one I mean no one in the Sikh community.So they date out of the race to satisfy their needs and other race/religion guys(mostly) just use them as a sex toy and pass them around.When the girl decides she is getting old and needs someone to pay for her shit she goes all Satti Savitri Angel Fairy Virgin and finds a Sikh boy aka "Balli da Bakra" to get married to.Have seen this happen so many times it no longer surprises me.F) Failure of the Parents& Sikh community to create the institutions needed to give religious/social education from young to children.G)Self-Hating mentality in the Punjabi Sikh community where we look down upon our own and idol worship others hence the females lust and fantasize for other men.Even the males are the same,they would choose a white woman over a punjabi woman,no doubt about it.H)Taboo and hypocrisy in the Sikh community for our young to date and be in relationships hence causing the youth to look elsewhere to satisfy kaam.Through my observation I've noticed that Punjabis generally have a high sex drive,my grandparents were married in their teens while today we are getting married in our 30's and 40's so during the younger unmarried age it is obvious that sex would be sought one way or another.And we must acknowledge that our youth are not yogis or Older generation Sikhs that had their senses under control through strenous Naam Simran and Paath.
I have got many other reasons but they just are not coming to mind at this moment and I do not wish to type too much and create a wall of text.I will answer more of Samurai2 jis question in another post later.
"let there be no holds barred for this topic, let it flow man.."  I concur.

....and there goes my appetite...😒

Sri Guru Nanak Aap Parmeshar, Avtaar Liye Subh Bans Pardhaana.

-Sarbloh Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji

Can't be any clearer than that

Ultimately, I think the answer is simple. 
Is being born a female karmic punishment? 
Yes , because eventually, you become a MOTHER - IN - LAW. And a mother in law is hated equally, by both men and women.